I can't seem to find this option.
If i want to create a .torrent to send to few friends and not upload anywhere, but just send them the file so they can download from me. In utorrent there was that option, how do i do it in tixati? Tried creating the torrent then editing trackers with ip:port/announce but that trackers comes back as bad so that failed.

Tixati doesn't have embedded tracker function. I think the easiest way would be to use DHT, without any tracker. You can also add a public tracker.