I'm trying to whitelist it on a private tracker which I am on, I never liked private trackers, but this ones belongs to a friend of mine and I'm giving him a hand in there.
As for if this will change anything on other communities, quite honestly I will not waste time spreading the word. (I don't give 2 f****s about private trackers, like I said)
Just ask them where did they got that information, and where are the records of such statement. Because I'm pretty sure they are just being a bunch of copy cats, copying the banned list from other sites without any data to back it up.
Another thing you could do, which will take a lot of time, is to offer to make a trial test, with a bunch of downloads and uploads, check records on both Site & client see if they match with each other, and then check if the total uploaded amount of a specific torrent (of all peers) divided by the number of peers that snatched it (exclude the original uploader when dividing by the number of peers) equals the torrent size (if any excess data is sent, the final result will be higher than the torrent size).
Few tips, careful with the Double/Triple upload, some trackers tend to have such features, which may mess up with the data you'll be getting, I had this issue, fortunately I have access to some site data, which allowed me to gather data with perfect accuracy.
Here an illustration, could be better but I think it shows how to:
https://λ.pw/fPp.png
(Safe screenshot)