It would be impossible that their file is growing more slowly than what I am sending to them.
It is unlikely but possible. Data may become corrupted along the way.
I guess Rem B/s value is calculated from HAVE messages. It depends on information given by the peer and is only estimated value. For example some clients, like qBittorent, are "optimised" so that they won't send HAVE messages to seeders (this breaks Super Seeding too:
http://forum.tixati.com/support/1777/ ). If you are seeding, qBittorrent will always show 0 Rem B/s, also their Progress won't advance.